Do inspect your breasts and nipples to
see what they look like.
Do become familiar with these wonders
of nature. Are your nipples flat or inverted when gently squeezed? DON'T
panic.
There is some evidence that they may become protracted (outies)
by the end of the pregnancy. If not, you can call your local resource
(see Preparation for Breast-feeding) for
assistance before the birth of your baby.
DON'T use soaps, creams, friction or anything on your breasts or
nipples unless you have a very unusual situation and have gotten professional
advice to do so by someone well trained in breast-feeding problems.
It is just not necessary. The oil glands around the nipples and early
leaking colostrum (milk later) are all you need for both pregnancy and
nursing. It is nature at it's best.
Remember, the most important organ in breast-feeding is the mother's
brain. When it receives signals from the nipple and breast, milk production
and ejection will occur.
Mothering is more learned than instinctive and her best teacher is her
own baby.1
Personally, I'm grateful that my first little five pound baby knew what
to do, because I knew next to nothing. She came early and that's my excuse.
I was sick a lot the first three months, but she thrived because I nursed
on demand and used bottles for emergencies only.
1Rubin, R: Attainment of the maternal role.
Nurs Res 16:237 - 41 and 342 - 46, 1967.