The best way to get ready for this incredible
experience is to learn about breast-feeding from a reliable source BEFORE
the baby comes.
There are many myths and much misinformation out there that contribute
and sometimes even cause breast-feeding failures. Some of it comes from
medical professionals who have not been trained. As an RN I have heard
it all.... However, there are good sources including:
La Leche League - look for a local group. If you want to
learn how to do something, go to someone who is successful at it.
They have vast resources including professionals worldwide.
Nursing Mother's Association - like La Leche, offers correct
information, problem solving skills and support.
Find and read a good book
on breast-feeding. Avoid booklets put out by formula companies and
infant feeding equipment companies. Anything put out with a big
brand name on it may have a financial interest in selling formula
or equipment to replace the baby at the breast. There is a time
and a place for these things, but not when you are in a normal breast-feeding
situation.
Classes taught by a Certified Lactation Consultant, a very
important person to know if the other groups are not available.
Talk to successful breast-feeding moms who have totally
breast-fed their baby for as long as you want to. (Two weeks and
then on to the bottle doesn't cut it, unless that's what you want
to do)
Some hospital classes are very good but beware of the possible
negative influences of the hospital procedures and policies upon
good solid breast-feeding support and advice. The nurse teaching
the class may know how to combat these.
Avoid people with breast-feeding horror stories. I'll bet 99% of
these problems could have been avoided with proper support and correct
information. I can't tell you how many moms have lamented to me,
"Oh, if I had only known..."
Your doctor - unfortunately not too many of them are very knowledgeable
yet due to a lack of interest or training. You may be able to find
one who is supportive through one of the support groups or the lactation
consultant in your area.