Technically,
a HOROSCOPE is the term astrologers use for a chart showing the relative
positions of the stars and planets at a specific time. But for most people,
a horoscope is the forecast astrologers make based on that chart. The
word horoscope comes from the Greek word horoskopos, which literally means
hour watcher.
The central themes represented by the horoscope are a good place to
start learning about your child, because the sign symbolizes the characteristics
and qualities inherent in his or her basic nature.
The sun sign allows you to concentrate on
qualities you can expect to enjoy and develop as you interact with your
precious new arrival. The more aware you are of who you have brought
into the world, the better you'll be at supplying the support, stimuli,
and nurturing appropriate to that particular child.
This free spirit comes to you with a gift of intelligence and an ability
to adhere to his or her own uniqueness: You can't mold an Aquarian. The
normal patterns of childhood development rarely apply to them; rather,
it will likely occur in unusual spurts. As infants, they thrive on stimuli,
unexpected change, and surprises; there is little need for routine. Aquarians
are great observers and original thinkers. Give your child space to explore
and you'll be surprised by what he or she invents. At school, Aquarians
often require something other than the standard curriculum. Help your
child to set up a firm foundation to bring those lofty ideals into the
material world. Social interactions and friendships are very important,
especially when an Aquarian connects with people of like mind. But a unique
mental perspective can create feelings of isolation and loneliness, so
your child will need your help to find his or her way socially.
This highly sensitive and psychic child requires a tremendous amount of
love, care, and closeness in order to feel safe in this world. Your baby
is receptive to the vibrations of everything and everyone, which can be
overwhelming. There may be a tendency to withdraw, escape, or even become
sick as a reaction to being so empathetic. A Pisces child will always
be connected to the dream world, and will have an amazing imagination
and link to the soul's wisdom. This is a child who will thrive on stories
and creative play. Validate your child's intuition, as this will become
a guiding light through the chaos of ordinary life. Pisces children will
appreciate order, structure, and assistance in setting goals. They may
have a tendency to underestimate their own capacities while idealizing
those of others; help your young Pisces to avoid placing him- or herself
last. Gently reinforce steps toward greater independence, aware that your
son or daughter may have fears that block progress. Listen carefully to
encourage communication; you can provide perspective on a Pisces' innate
understanding of spiritual matters.
Your Aries child will be assertive and independent, seeking new experience
as the means to learning. From the very beginning this child's wants and
needs will be voiced loudly and clearly. Energetic Aries is gifted with
an athletic body, which makes physical accomplishments natural and easy.
He or she will be outgoing, competitive, and excited about the world.
You'll find your child to be precocious and anxious to take the next developmental
steps. Don't be surprised if your youngster is in a hurry to walk, wanting
to get moving and out into the world! You can be of most assistance to
this child's needs by providing a safe environment where energy can be
focused into constructive activities. Help your child to realize his or
her potential by encouraging a responsible attitude to go along with a
natural tendency toward independence. Teach the value of completing tasks
and encourage sensitivity to others.
Your Taurus baby thrives on affection and creature comforts. Food and
loving touch play important roles in meeting this sign's primary need:
to feel a consistent sense of security in the world. A serene environment
with dependable routines helps your child enjoy each day. Life runs smoothly
unless he or she feels pushed or becomes attached to something that you
don't support; stubborn and determined, your little Bull will hold out
longer than you can imagine. To help develop positive personality traits
and fulfill innate potential, let your Taurus child explore at his or
her own pace. Your child is practical and productive; provide many opportunities
to develop self-reliance and be sure to reward results. Help your child
to understand the role that money plays in the material world. Releasing
attachment to things can be tricky; you won't be able to throw out old
shoes, clothes, or toys without arousing feelings of invasion or insecurity.
The primary preoccupation of the Taurean is the continuity of loving;
this is the best gift you can give this child.
Your baby will be mentally alert, responsive, and incredibly entertaining.
Curious and adaptable, Gemini children prefer to be out in social environments
and are treasured by the people they meet. However, this capacity for
early mental and social development can camouflage emotional insecurities.
Be flexible in scheduling rather than attached to routines. Avoid over
stimulating this active mind; storytelling can help your Gemini child
to relax. It is typical for a Gemini child to have too many interests
going on at the same time, sometimes leading to a sense of distraction
that can be a handicap in school. Create an atmosphere that supports concentration
and inquisitiveness. An extended family can activate and encourage this
child's variety of interests. And if he or she asks endless questions,
teach your child how to find the answers. Be aware of which behaviors
you reward; this clever child can also be tricky and mischievous. Remind
your Gemini of the consequences that come with experimentation and encourage
honesty.
You are in for a treat! The Cancer child is sweet, loving, and responsive
to mom's feelings. In fact, you might forget who the mother is here. Sensitivity,
imagination, and an acute awareness of others' feelings are typical characteristics
of the Cancer child. Emotional bonding is essential and home and family
provide a place of belonging. Due to your child's hypersensitive nature,
you'll need to provide extra protection from the world's negativity. Otherwise,
he or she will create defense mechanisms for emotional survival. Hold
your child as much as possible, letting your little Cancer know that you
intend to create a safe place as long as need be; it'll be clear when
the time comes to help your child build a separate identity and greater
self-confidence. Encourage your child to take creative risks. Although
he or she relies mostly on intuition, memory will play an important part
in success at school. Your child appreciates structure and guidelines
from positive authority figures.
No matter how busy you get or how many other children you have, your Leo
baby needs to feel special. This child looks to you for applause and appreciation.
When feeling loved and adored, he or she overflows with exuberant warmth
and generosity of heart. Confidence and self- respect are the primary
tools for Leo; with these, your child can see the potential for creative
self-expression and leadership. You can cultivate these attributes by
providing honest feedback, praise, and attention. Be aware that competition
for attention amidst family members could create complications in your
Leo child's future relationships. Teach your youngster how to resolve
conflicts and give guidelines for the practical aspects of life while
acknowledging the value of fulfilling one's dreams. Demonstrate sympathy
and understanding rather than indifference; otherwise, emotions will escalate
until your Leo gets your attention! Allow room for mistakes; your child
wants to feel proud and will be motivated toward self-correction.
Virgo children develop discrimination early. They are acutely observant,
bright, and alert to subtle patterns, and want to understand how everything
works. Only the highest standard is the model to emulate. Your Virgo may
appear to be picky, but it's important to listen to this child's preferences;
they are sensitive to criticism and attached to the idea of being right.
As a parent, you should try to be a model of ease, acceptance, and forgiveness.
Virgo children require efficient routines to feel safe and are happy to
help out Mom and Dad around the house. Anything you do must be consistent
and genuine; you can't pull the wool over this child's eyes. Virgo children
need healthy habits, especially with food and sleep, as they are sensitive
to physical imbalances caused by excess. Undirected mental activity can
turn into worry and anxiety.
A flow of loving energy provides security for your Libra baby. Because
this child is eager to please and tends to follow role models, his or
her behavior could be based on other people's expectations. Teach your
child what is socially appropriate while still emphasizing the significance
of self-discovery and self-expression. Appearances are important, but
not at the expense of the inner connection to one's own truth. Overly
sensitive to harsh atmospheres, your little Libra will appreciate beauty,
balance, and serenity. He or she will be loving and responsive and in
many cases will assume the role of the peacemaker. Librans have a natural
inclination toward theater, music, art, romance, and happily- ever-after
stories. As they grow older, their need for beauty, balance, and fair
play becomes a motivation to enhance their lives and the lives of others.
SCORPIO
(October 23 - November 21) Don't try to hide anything from your new little
detective -- especially your feelings. Validate your son or daughter by
encouraging emotional expression; let your child know that by doing so
he or she will not lose your love. The trusting child will share private
feelings and will count on you to keep those secrets and respect personal
likes and dislikes. With such a deep connection, this child will give
you space to do what you want. A Scorpio is inquisitive about the mysterious
forces of life, sex, and death; get ready to engage in profound discussions
when your youngster can articulate thoughts and ideas. This child is not
easily coerced into doing what others expect. You're better off winning
a Scorpio's cooperation rather than going head-to-head with one; a predominant
characteristic of this sign is a phenomenal amount of willpower. Never
underestimate the power behind the intentions, even in that little body.
Betrayal is not quickly forgotten, and resentment can lead to revenge.
Your Sagittarius baby won't want to miss out on anything! Your child will
be restless and inquisitive, filled with enthusiasm, and an inborn optimist.
Don't try to constrain this child too much; freedom is the thing he or
she values most. Mediocrity and normal routines are confining to your
small Sagittarian. Keep him or her entertained with the wonder of new
experiences. Once able to walk, your youngster will be out the door and
around the block before you know it! It is both a physical and a mental
urge you are witnessing. Sagittarians have more unanswered questions to
resolve than anyone you can imagine. This can be exhausting for you; set
limits. Teach your child to deal with the negative as well as the positive,
though he or she won't easily accept "no" and "can't."
This positive thinking attracts many opportunities. Things usually come
without much effort for the Sagittarian. A sport or other activity requiring
effort and self- discipline is a good foundation for your child's future
success.
Look into the eyes of your Capricorn child and you'll see an old soul.
A deep sense of responsibility is the dominant characteristic of a Capricorn.
In fact, the urge to grow up and take charge can interfere with the natural
stages of childhood. Some daily structure will help provide a feeling
of security. Even though he or she loves to appear useful and competent,
don't push this child to be strong. Teach your Capricorn child the value
of being touched, and held and how to receive comfort when feeling sensitive.
As time passes, set up opportunities for him or her to be in charge of
projects. A Capricorn loves to feel the reward of doing a good job and
is so purposeful that children's play can seem frivolous. Encourage balance,
ease, laughter, and risk-taking. As the parent of a Capricorn, you need
to teach loving self-discipline with the use of time. Encourage realistic
goal setting, reinforcing the value of not only the result but what is
learned along the way.