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Physical fitness, nutrition and emotional
well - being are all parts of a healthy and happy child. Encouraging participation
in organized sports can be a valuable life lesson as well as a fun means
of getting physically fit.
Determining when to start children in organized sports
can be difficult. Often this decision is controlled by what programs are
available. With visions of Olympic medals or lucrative professional contracts
we are often tempted to start children as early as possible in order to
get as much experience as possible. Unfortunately, this approach typically
leads to burnout early on.
Contact/collision sports are not a good choice for young
children.
Children of about 7 years of age should be ready to start
team activities.
Prior to 7-years, enhancing children's coordination skills,
fine motor skills and cognitive skills happen during the child's play.
Once you've decided that your child is old enough to engage in team sports,
selecting a sport that's right for your child might
simply be a matter of the child's preferences.
Your child must
be interested in the particular sport to have any chance for having
a good experience in the activity.
Selecting a sport
only because Mom or Dad or an older brother or sister had played that
sport is a no-no
If your child is
open to any sport then you might try enrolling them in an all-sports
program at a recreation department or similar facility. This type of
program will give your child a taste of several different sports in
a relatively non-competitive and stress free environment.
Do
we treat our daughter's interest in sports related activities the same
as our sons?
Since the federal law regarding opportunities available for females (known
as Title IX) was passed in the mid-1970s, much has changed in girls' and
women's sports. What we see is a difference in how these athletes publicly
display this commitment to sports. But not only do we see it between the
two genders, we also see it within the two genders. As parents, we need
to understand what attracts our children to their particular sport and
build our support of them around that attraction.
Children who select "non-traditional", gender specific
sports should be encouraged to play as long as they desire or as long
as it's still fun.
You say you're daughter wants to play baseball? Your son
wants to learn dance? GO FOR IT!
Preventing
Injury is another concern for parents. Use the following tips
as a guide when selecting sports for your child:
Proper Diet and
Nutrition - We're fueled by what we eat and need plenty of fluids
to keep from overheating. Encourage water rather than high sodium "energy"
beverages.
Get Rest
- Well-rested kids tend to have fewer injuries on the playing field.
They're alert and ready to play. Encourage rest times and bedtimes.
Good Physical
Conditioning - Before playing any sport, children should stretch
and strengthen muscles. Also, regular exercise (which many children
get just playing outside) will prevent pulled muscles and soreness.
Encourage children to go out and PLAY! Turn off the TV, Video games
and computers every day!
Know the Rules
- Knowing the rules of the game will prevent injuries as well. A player
standing in the baseline during a baseball game is more likely to collide
with the runner. Encourage playing by the rules.
Survey Playing
Surface - Potholes, poor surfacing, obstructions and the like may
be an accident waiting to happen. You as a parent can survey the playing
area before sending your child into the game.
Watch Weather
Conditions - Stay attuned to dangerous weather conditions that may
arise during play. Have a safe place in mind for unforeseen severe weather
conditions.
Proper Equipment
- Ensure that your child's equipment fits properly and is in good condition.
Many sports organizations share equipment from year to year. Check to
be sure your child's protective gear is undamaged and properly fitted.
This includes footwear, pads, helmets, etc. Replace damaged equipment
immediately.
Proper Coaching
- Coaches should provide good training in basic activity fundamentals.
Coaches should be encouraging and fair, knowledgeable about the sport
and techniques. Coaches should not curse, argue or humiliate. If so,
find a new coach.
Remember the most important lessons learned by organized sports include
sportsmanship, confidence building and learning how to handle failure
- all valuable life lessons.
If a child is not having fun, then nothing can be learned at all. Keep
asking yourself and your child. "Are we having fun yet?"
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