According to the American
Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, left untreated, depression
can lead some children to take their own lives. Suicide is the third leading
cause of death for 15- to 24-year-olds and the sixth leading cause of
death for 5- to 14-year-olds. Attempted suicides are even more common.
All parents should know the warning signs of
suicide because 4 out of 5 teens that attempt suicide give clear warnings.
Threats of suicide - either direct or indirect.
Verbal hints such as "I won't be around much longer"
or "It's hopeless."
Putting affairs in order (for example, giving or throwing
away favorite possessions).
Sudden cheerfulness after a period of depression.
Hallucinations or bizarre thoughts.
If you notice these warning signs in your child:
Ask the child or teen if he or she feels depressed or thinks
about suicide or death. Speaking openly and honestly allows the child
to confide in you and gives you a chance to express your concern.
Listen to his or her thoughts and feelings in a caring and respectful
manner.
Let the child or teen know that you care and want to help.
Supply the child or teen with local resources, such as a crisis
hotline or the location of a mental health clinic. If the child or teen
is a student, find out if there are any available mental health professionals
at the school and let the child know about them.
Get professional help. It is essential to get expert advice from
a mental health professional that has experience helping depressed children
and teens.
Alert key adults in the child's life-family, friends, teachers.
Inform the child's parents or primary caregiver, and recommend
that they seek professional assistance for their child or teen.
Trust your instincts. If you think the situation may be serious,
seek immediate help.
If necessary, break a confidence in order to save a life.